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A wishlist for couples: a shared list for your celebrations

Your celebrations are shared, and guests choose gifts for both of you. A shared list lets you fill it together, and friends and family do not have to guess what you need.

October 12, 2026 · 2 min read

In this article
  1. What the Couple mode is for
  2. How to create a list for a couple in Bazhanka
  3. What to add to a shared list
  4. Who sees what and who reserves

What the Couple mode is for

It is a list for events you celebrate together: a wedding, a milestone birthday, an anniversary, a housewarming, the birth of a child. You fill it together, and the gifts are chosen and reserved by guests: friends, relatives, colleagues. Gifts for each other are not hinted at here, personal lists are for that.

How to create a list for a couple in Bazhanka

  1. Create a group and choose the Couple mode. Add a name and, if you like, a short description.
  2. Invite your partner by email or by link. Joining needs a Bazhanka account, and a couple can have only two people.
  3. “Our list” appears automatically with the couple. Your partner becomes its co-owner when they join.
  4. Add wishes together. For a separate event, such as a housewarming or a milestone birthday, create a new list: it becomes shared too.
  5. Share the list by link with friends and family, and they can reserve a gift for you.

What to add to a shared list

  • Things for the home: appliances, dishes, textiles.
  • Experiences for two: trips, dinners, workshops.
  • Things for a baby, if you are preparing for a child.
  • Bigger goals: furniture, a bicycle, a photo shoot.
  • Small things for guests with a modest budget.

Who sees what and who reserves

Guests you send the link to see the list and reserve gifts (reserving needs an account). You both see that a wish is reserved but not who reserved it. You do not reserve in your own shared lists.

Gifts for each other are better hinted at in personal lists: there you can hide the reservation marks and keep the surprise.

More about the mode: Couple in Bazhanka. And general list tips: What is a wishlist.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the Couple mode?

It is a shared list for two people who fill it together for their celebrations. The gifts are chosen and reserved by guests who get the link.

What events is it for?

A wedding, an anniversary, a milestone birthday, a housewarming, the birth of a child and any celebration you mark together.

Do partners give gifts to each other through it?

No, this mode is for gifts from guests. Gifts for each other are better hinted at in personal lists, where the reservation marks can be hidden to keep the surprise.

Who reserves gifts from the shared list?

The guests you sent the link to: friends, relatives, colleagues. Neither of you reserves in your shared lists, but you see that a wish is already reserved.

Do we see who reserved a gift?

No. You see only that a wish is reserved; who did it stays a secret.

How many people can be in a couple and how many lists?

A couple has two people, and a third one is let in neither by a link nor by an invitation. As many lists as you need, and each is automatically shared by both: a separate one for a wedding, a housewarming or a baby.